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There are very distinct signs that you have met your soulmate. Just looking for these signs will help you quickly learn if you are waisting your time or if you’ve finally really found your perfect soulmate.

There was this mythical story that originally people had four arms and four legs, one head with two faces. The god Zeus feared the power of such people and split them in half. They had to spend their lives seeking their other half to be complete.

This is a strange story or myth, but maybe we do have a soulmate. I believe we do. I believe that believe makes love stronger. Knowing that you are soulmates.

Your soulmate should give you a natural feeling of deep love. A strong feeling of intimacy and compatibility. You should feel a warm feeling inside like you are connected spiritually. The kisses should be out of this world along with the sex.

Just don’t use the kisses and sex as the focal point of judging if this is your soulmate. That is called lust.

Your soulmate should almost know your every thought without you speaking. He or she should know what you want and how you feel. A lot of times they will be able to finish your sentences. Soulmates feel each others moods and know when each other wants to be alone or wants to cuddle close. Most of the time soulmates are inseparable.

You will not always like the same restaurants or food, or like the same programs on TV.

You may not always be in the mood to do the same things, and that doesn’t mean you are not soulmates. Everyone will have bad days and good ones. Being too much alike will cause some discomfort. You will at times need your own space.

It will take some time to figure out if you found your ‘Perfect Soulmate,’ but this article should help speed up the question, ‘Have you met your soulmate?’

Love,

Mike & Karen xoxoxo

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Love is one of humanity’s favorite topics. There are countless books, songs, poems, and websites on the subject. Not to mention all the TV shows and movies that have love stories. It is an enjoyable subject because people can do both funny and beautiful things when in love.

Love is one emotion that is very hard to control. We don’t want to control what’s happening. All we know is we want to be with that person because we love the feeling we get when we are around them.

But how do we know when we meet the one that is our soul mate? The one that will bring us great happiness for the rest of our lives.

What usually happens is we meet someone and love them for the wrong reasons. We love them for what we receive from them. We love them because of our own needs, desires and passions. We love them because of the way they look, or what they do for a living, or how much money they have. Our natural tendencies take over and we seek things that are self-serving. We want someone that fulfills our desires.

Self-centered love is doomed to fail. The reason is sooner or later the material reasons we fell in love with that person will fade away. The job may be lost, the looks may go, the money may go.

For true happiness we need to learn to put other peoples needs ahead of our own. The same goes for love. We need to ask ourselves what can we give this person, not what they can give to us. True love is when two people become one. They care for the other for who they are inside. They see the world and life exactly as you do. They love the same things you do. Your read the same books, love the same tastes, the same smells, play the same games, laugh at the same things. This is happiness.

Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own. Robert A. Heinlein

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“You know it’s love when all you want is that person to be happy, even if you’re not part of their happiness.” Julia Roberts

Interest happens at first sight, but I do not believe in Love at first sight. Love is such a deep feeling, “The King of Feelings.” You may have a strong feeling that draws you toward them. You just can’t seem to stop looking at them, and your eyes connect.

To pinpoint exactly the moment love happens, there could be some truth to that. I said some truth. I can remember when I first met Karen, there were a lot of moments that could be the start of our love, but no burst of stars or fireworks went off.

Love builds over time. When you get to know each others feeling, likes and dislikes. The expressions, the laughs, the eyes, the kisses…. They slowly start to consume your thoughts. Before long you are always thinking of them. Nothing else matters but making this person happy.

You start doing things you wouldn’t of even thought about doing before you met this person. Romantic things and going to different events. You find that you enjoy every moment with this person no matter what your doing.

You have a lot in common. You love doing the same things, going to the same places. You like talking about the same things. You have the same goals in life.

Then you meet the family. You love the family and they love you.

Slowly you are falling deeper and deeper in love.

Love,

Mike & Karen

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You may be starting to look for your soul mate, or you may be not looking but someone has come into your life that you have feelings for. Are you ready for love or a relationship?

If you are looking for your perfect partner, then think about why. Are you looking to fill a empty hole in your life? Are you lonely? Are you unhappy and think a relationship will make you happier?

If you answered yes to any of the above then maybe you might not be ready for love. You may make your life worse if you rush into a relationship. You may jump at the first person that shows an interest and that person could make your life a living hell.

When you start dating most if not all of your free time will, or should be spent with “Your New Best Friend.” Once you find someone you like with the same interests you will be ‘Playing together’ a lot. Or you will be on the phone together, or eating together, and so on. ‘New Love’ is powerful and some of your other interests or chores will or may be moved down on the priority list.

Your family and friends might see less of you. To keep your new love interested you will need to make time for them. Not too many people will want to share you with family and friends all the time. They will want alone time with you. Hopefully something romantic.

You should feel good about yourself and where you are now. You should be comfortable with your career, and life.

When you start looking for your perfect partner out of desperation, loneliness, or are afraid the clock is ticking and time is running out you will make a hasty decision. Those usually end bad.

Make sure you are ready for love.

Love,

Mike & Karen

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“Love Doesn’t Happen Overnight, but It Can End In Moments”

Finding your perfect partner or ‘Soul Mate’ as you probably have found is not that easy or you wouldn’t be here. Or maybe you think you have found what you think may be the “One” but you are looking for some answers to make sure before you make the commitment.

Perfect is one of my favorite words, and sometimes, but not very often perfection can be achieved. As far as finding your “Perfect” partner I don’t think that is possible. For one thing, people change. No one stays the same person for very long. People grow, get more mature, get tired of things, change occupations, buy new toys, and so on.

The first step is finding a “Best Friend,” and then move slowly into something more “Committed.”

These are what I would look for first in a “Soul Mate:”

• Someone with the same interests. Not just one interest, but almost all the same interests. Of coarse there is going to be two or three things that you may not like as much as your partner, but most of your interests should be common interests or things you like to do together.
• Trust is the most important quality. If you catch your partner in a lie, then it is very hard for them to get your trust back. Relationships are built on trust. It is the foundation of all relationships. Before making any commitment, you should know if you can trust your partner.
• You need to have the same goals. This is one of the easiest ones to figure out. Just ask, “Where do you want to be in 10, 20, 30 years?” “How many kids would you like?” and so on.
• The person needs to like if not love your friends and family. They need to get along well with them and the friends and family should like them. That will tell you if you are alike in choosing friends and relationships. You will want to invite your family and friends over or go to their homes. If your partner doesn’t like them that will really create problems later. Where will you go on Thanksgiving, Christmas, etc.

Those are the most important qualities to look for. There are others, but this is a good start.

Hope you enjoyed my first post here. There will be many more and often so be sure and come back soon.

Love ya,

Mike & Karen

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